The shadow of your greatest gift.

Hello Earth Angels

As you know we come in with gifts, talents and attributes. Melody has been reviewing hers recently as she has made some changes in her lifestyle and there are still more to come.

Her greatest gift is her creativity and this life time she has explored many ways to express this creativity. She has been a professional singer, author, speaker, teacher and radio host to mention but a few. She is gifted with an unquenchable thirst to learn new things and practise them to a level of mastery that most people cannot be bothered with. She has been motivated to do this because she has needed to use her talent. Her talent is two-fold – to translate complex ideas and to facilitate understanding in others of things that are often complicated. This is the role of the teacher – firstly to learn oneself and then to pass on the learning to others. She has been a teacher of the creative arts, english as a second language, spiritual and creative journeys, self-development and how to live life more fully in terms of relationships, career choices and using your intuition.

To expand and utilise your gifts requires you to work

with the shadow of those gifts.

We would like to explain this in more detail.

Your shadow is not something to fear. Your shadow attributes are the fuel that gives light to what you have come here to express. Your pain and suffering propel you to move away from pain and suffering and choose joy and love but at another level it is the fuel that provides the energy for you to be propelled into the expression of your light. Therefore you can never be separate from it and you can never be better off without it.

You NEED the shadow and you need to become more efficient in transforming

its power to catapult you into new worlds.

As you can see there is subtly in this understanding. Remember Life is always abundant and efficient – there is never waste.

So let’s look at Melody’s ‘shadow aspects’ that help here express her gifts and talents.

Her gift is her creativity – her gift shadow is her amazing ability to come through difficulty.

Melody keeps putting herself in difficult situations so that she can express more of her creativity because difficult situations enable her to transform herself and re-create who she is. This is one of the reasons her professional career is so diverse.Each time she has transformed her difficult situation she has created something new and marvellous. Mostly the new and marvellous is a new understanding of herself and others that she is then able to utilise to teach others.

Her talent is to teach others and the specific teaching she has come to share is the process of transformation. To enable her to master her talent she has had to take many risks and put herself in many kinds of danger. By this we do not mean extreme sports, but she has if you like played extreme sports with her spiritual, emotional and mental health in order to understand experientially the capacity of human beings to re-invent themselves from trauma and abuse. Now of course she did not necessarily do all of this from a conscious viewpoint. It is the subconscious that carries many of these negative programs. But through negativity Melody has transformed more of her shadow into light and as the light has increased the understanding of her actions has happened as well.

It has resulted in Melody having a strong desire for peace, stillness and acceptance of herself and her world … and these are good desires to have.

For many years Melody did not understand her shadow and why she continually created places in her life for transformation, but a teacher of the transformational process needs to understand how transformation happens, break it down into teachable chunks and perfect the teaching so that others learn from the teacher’s learning.

Time and due diligence is required to gain expertise because as you continue to develop your skills you gain in mastery. Mastery enables you to enjoy the process, to do things with grace and ease and a deep sense of pleasure. 

Mastery transforms the shadow by accepting its place in your lives.

It is the expression of your individual purpose.

So while others may have a more stable life than Melody it will be because their gifts, talents attributes and shadows are different.

As soon as you become more interested in other people’s lives and compare yourselves with others the more ‘off track’ from your own life and reason to be here you become  – creating deep pain within. This wound will not be healed until you accept your journey first and focus on you. The pain does not disappear but your way of handling it means you do not ‘stay in the pain’. You recognise it, accept it and allow it to go back into the sea of your consciousness, blessed with healing and compassion. This is an element of being in the flow. Acceptance of self.Only from a place of acceptance can you take the right action to resolve it.

Getting back to Melody’s dilemma. Her risk-taking and ability to come back from difficulty. Melody is learning that the nuance of degree is the issue here.

Her risk-taking is necessary to her path, so she cannot deny this element of her being, however she does not need to be in a place of extreme risk-taking. She only needs to understand when and how much risk-taking she is needing in any given moment. By qualifying the amount of risk at each point of her life she can find ways to take the risk and understand the transformation without putting herself into a fight or flee circumstance every single time. Not all points of transformation need extreme conditions to be understood.

We hope this has been helpful.

Bless-sings from the angels

Melody

Winner # 29 – Angels Guidance

Hello Earth Angels

Here is  the 29th question the Angels have answered in our promotion for July.

Shelley asks:

I am e-mailing because I have a question about what my purpose in life is.  At 50 years old, and not by my own choice initially, I am starting a new life.  Right now I feel like I am wandering aimlessly with no real direction.  I do have faith in my abilities however I’m just not sure how to apply them. I have also wondered if I will ever be able to trust someone enough to open my heart to them. Thank you.

Angels Reply:

Dear one – thank you for this question.

We feel your pain at the changes in your life – and we wish to begin there first if we may. You have come through a big wrench in your life where you have found yourself on a completely different path to what you had expected for you. You are still dealing with a lot of the emotions of that time. You have put in place a coping mechanism that enables you to function day-to-day but is like a fog around you that stops you from getting in touch with your passion. You feel that following your passion gets you into trouble and results in catastrophes. Please get some help with these emotions buried deep within you before you make choices to move forward. (Melody will suggest some ways that may help.)

Your deep desires and passions are so necessary to move you forward, without them you do not have the energy to go through all the highs and lows of an adventure. The biggest adventure Earth Angels take part in is their life – and it is the one they most often disconnect from the most. We think this is a  great sadness. It happens because Earth Angels do not understand why they came to Earth and so when something happens that pulls them from their ideal of what life is like – they begin to disconnect from life. This is what has happened to you. So the first step is to heal the emotions so you can reconnect to life. When you are fully centred in the flow you will start to feel the pull to explore different directions from now and life will be sweeter for you. Take this time to heal. Please remember your life purpose is to experience LIFE and love. The better question to ask is: Am I living my life on purpose? Am I living my life to the fullest? Or am I withholding from life and love? We think you know what you are doing and what needs to change. Your guardian angels can assist you to find the right steps. Blessings Beloved.

Bless-sings from the Angels

Melody

Melody speaks:

Hello Shelley – I would suggest the following might be useful to you:-

  • a session with a kineisiologist
  • some work with flower essences (I particularly like working with Spirit of Woman Essences that are developed with women in mind and for the emergence of the Feminine at this time
  • EFT practices
  • journal writing

Bless-sings

Melody