Hello Earth Angels
Here is the 7th question the angels have answered in our promotion for July.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months and this weekend he suggested we move in together. It was a shock (in a good way) to be asked and I said “yes”! But now I am not so sure. Is it just nerves or is there something wrong with the whole situation?
The angels answer:
Dear one, this is a big move for you and you are right to want time to think about it seriously. You are still living at home with your family and this decision will mean a discussion with your family about moving out. Your family are traditional thinkers. They expected you to leave home to get married not to live with a man. This is the biggest stumbling block to you acting on the ‘Yes” you have given. You do not want to disappoint them and it is important that you consider them in this. What has really happened is your boyfriend has said ‘ I want to make a committment to be with you, I care deeply about you and I want us to be serious enough to be monogamous and committed to sharing a life together.’ The questions you need to ask yourself seriously are 1) do you love him? 2) do you really want to live with him in a committed relationship and why? 3) are you willing to risk your parents disappointment to find out? 4) Do you really enjoy this man’s company and would you do so day by day, every day? If you cannot answer a resounding YES to every question then it is not the right time for you to do this.
Beloved it is perfectly ok to take your time, there is no need to hurry. We see this a lot in Earth Angels this sense of I must do it quickly, I must rush. This is a sign you are in fear or worried you may miss out. There is no need for this. Savour this love, enjoy the moments, enjoy where you are right now, be filled with gratitude that you are experiencing this love right now … Love is something to marvel over, to embrace fully and enjoy. If you do this you will find the right answer for you. Remember we are always here with love beloved.
Blessings from the angels