Birthing Ourselves in Love

Hello Earth Angels

I hope that you are well and filled with joy.

As I look around me (and at my own journey) I see many who are suffering and struggling in this moment – and so I finally remembered to ask the angels what is happening…

The Angels reply………

Dearest one

Firstly we admonish you lovingly – YOU ARE NOT ALONE… Everyone on Earth and much of the universe is focusing on the changes that are coming to Earth and her inhabitants.

We are here to help, to coach, to offer comfort, to be part of the cheering squad and the ‘mop-up-crew” when things get tense!

Everyone who is present at this time on earth put their hand up for the experience – and what an experience it is – the birthing of a new consciousness for you, your earth and the universe.

The impact of these shifts will reverberate around the Universe. It is very tense within you at present – and you are a little battle fatigued. It is ok to rest. To take time out… and it is especially helpful for you to go within yourself and be present with all the changes going on within you.

Each of you came to Earth at this time to experience the shift in consciousness through your key expression. Let us explain this.

  • If you are a physical person – into sports and lots of activity you will experience the shift through your body.You may get physical symptoms of imbalance – you may create physical accidents so that you can learn when to be still. You may have issues around your physical stamina and your main learning about this shift will come through your physical body. You will learn that you are more than your body. You are everything.
  • If you are a mental person – into education and thinking activities you will experience the shift through your mind.You may get mental symptoms of imbalance – you may create sever mental stress so that you can learn when to be still. You may have issues around your mental stamina and your main learning about this shift will come through your mental body. You will learn that you are more than your mind and your thinking. You are everything.
  • If you are an emotional person – into feeling and expressing yourself in emotional ways you will experience the shift through your emotions.You may get emotional symptoms of imbalance – you may create emotional crises so that you can learn when to be still , when to feel and release rather than hold on to the emotion You may have issues around your emotional stamina and your main learning about this shift will come through your emotional body. You will learn that you are more than your emotions. You are everything.

No matter your way to experience or express yourself during this shift you will find the changes begin in your comfort zone (one of those listed above) and spread to the shadow aspects of you (those above that you do not express) . This is because one cannot act outside of the wholeness of yourself for too long without a correction of energy.

You are here to experience LIFE through you … and ALL of you will be taking part even if some parts of you are more comfortable than others being ALIVE.

You are really in the process of birthing your true selves into the world. You are birthing the real and authentic you and doing it with the energy of all life – with love.

All that is not in the expression of true love is being released during this birthing process.

For women who know what childbirth is about.. you are in the unique position of birthing yourself and being birth helpers (if you so choose) to those who are unfamiliar with the ebb and flow of the process.

Women in childbirth know you do not keep pushing through every moment of labour. You push and then let go and stop, rest, regroup and get ready for the next contraction. You prepare yourself for the next step.

While you are in the birthing process it feels like it will never end, it will never get better and depending on your preparation and readiness to be a mother it can be a difficult experience. Always the choice is yours and this is true for this momentous time of consciousness as well.

Some may find the experience too overwhelming and leave before the whole birth process is complete. Others will leave because they have completed everything they set out to do and it is time to return home. All of you are on a journey to home. You are on the journey of coming home to yourself.

There is nothing to fear. In fact to fear is the worst thing you can do to yourselves as it will keep you in struggle, resistance and rebellion. The best action to take is to surrender unconditionally to the process.

You are here –  the changes will happen whether you will it or nay, so why not jump on the roller coaster and go for the ride of your life in radical trust?

Pass the controls over to your soul to manage – it is the part of you that knows what’s happening and can make the most of the experience for you. You will be fulfilled and happy in a way you have not been to date if you do.

Bless-sings from the Angels

Melody

The shadow of your greatest gift.

Hello Earth Angels

As you know we come in with gifts, talents and attributes. Melody has been reviewing hers recently as she has made some changes in her lifestyle and there are still more to come.

Her greatest gift is her creativity and this life time she has explored many ways to express this creativity. She has been a professional singer, author, speaker, teacher and radio host to mention but a few. She is gifted with an unquenchable thirst to learn new things and practise them to a level of mastery that most people cannot be bothered with. She has been motivated to do this because she has needed to use her talent. Her talent is two-fold – to translate complex ideas and to facilitate understanding in others of things that are often complicated. This is the role of the teacher – firstly to learn oneself and then to pass on the learning to others. She has been a teacher of the creative arts, english as a second language, spiritual and creative journeys, self-development and how to live life more fully in terms of relationships, career choices and using your intuition.

To expand and utilise your gifts requires you to work

with the shadow of those gifts.

We would like to explain this in more detail.

Your shadow is not something to fear. Your shadow attributes are the fuel that gives light to what you have come here to express. Your pain and suffering propel you to move away from pain and suffering and choose joy and love but at another level it is the fuel that provides the energy for you to be propelled into the expression of your light. Therefore you can never be separate from it and you can never be better off without it.

You NEED the shadow and you need to become more efficient in transforming

its power to catapult you into new worlds.

As you can see there is subtly in this understanding. Remember Life is always abundant and efficient – there is never waste.

So let’s look at Melody’s ‘shadow aspects’ that help here express her gifts and talents.

Her gift is her creativity – her gift shadow is her amazing ability to come through difficulty.

Melody keeps putting herself in difficult situations so that she can express more of her creativity because difficult situations enable her to transform herself and re-create who she is. This is one of the reasons her professional career is so diverse.Each time she has transformed her difficult situation she has created something new and marvellous. Mostly the new and marvellous is a new understanding of herself and others that she is then able to utilise to teach others.

Her talent is to teach others and the specific teaching she has come to share is the process of transformation. To enable her to master her talent she has had to take many risks and put herself in many kinds of danger. By this we do not mean extreme sports, but she has if you like played extreme sports with her spiritual, emotional and mental health in order to understand experientially the capacity of human beings to re-invent themselves from trauma and abuse. Now of course she did not necessarily do all of this from a conscious viewpoint. It is the subconscious that carries many of these negative programs. But through negativity Melody has transformed more of her shadow into light and as the light has increased the understanding of her actions has happened as well.

It has resulted in Melody having a strong desire for peace, stillness and acceptance of herself and her world … and these are good desires to have.

For many years Melody did not understand her shadow and why she continually created places in her life for transformation, but a teacher of the transformational process needs to understand how transformation happens, break it down into teachable chunks and perfect the teaching so that others learn from the teacher’s learning.

Time and due diligence is required to gain expertise because as you continue to develop your skills you gain in mastery. Mastery enables you to enjoy the process, to do things with grace and ease and a deep sense of pleasure. 

Mastery transforms the shadow by accepting its place in your lives.

It is the expression of your individual purpose.

So while others may have a more stable life than Melody it will be because their gifts, talents attributes and shadows are different.

As soon as you become more interested in other people’s lives and compare yourselves with others the more ‘off track’ from your own life and reason to be here you become  – creating deep pain within. This wound will not be healed until you accept your journey first and focus on you. The pain does not disappear but your way of handling it means you do not ‘stay in the pain’. You recognise it, accept it and allow it to go back into the sea of your consciousness, blessed with healing and compassion. This is an element of being in the flow. Acceptance of self.Only from a place of acceptance can you take the right action to resolve it.

Getting back to Melody’s dilemma. Her risk-taking and ability to come back from difficulty. Melody is learning that the nuance of degree is the issue here.

Her risk-taking is necessary to her path, so she cannot deny this element of her being, however she does not need to be in a place of extreme risk-taking. She only needs to understand when and how much risk-taking she is needing in any given moment. By qualifying the amount of risk at each point of her life she can find ways to take the risk and understand the transformation without putting herself into a fight or flee circumstance every single time. Not all points of transformation need extreme conditions to be understood.

We hope this has been helpful.

Bless-sings from the angels

Melody

The Angels’ First Aid Course to Handling Challenging Times

Hello Earth Angels

On this week’s show the Angels offered their First Aid Course to use when handling challenging times – and there is no doubt we are going through those now! So I have included them here for you to use.

Here are the steps to take when you are feeling as though you are spiralling out of control in panic, fear and anxiety.

1) Take some flower essences to help you connect back in to yourself – because emotions like panic, fear, and anxiety disconnect us from ourselves and make us frenetic and mad. They stop us from making heart-soul choices. These emotions keep us in our heads and away from the emotions we so desperately wish to feel, safe, secure and loved.

Flower essences give you a space to breathe and breathing deeply is the key to being in touch with your full and true self.

2)  Let go – let go of all you are feeling, let it wash away from you until you can feel some peace coming within. Surrender to this moment of now – let now be all there is – for in truth now is the only time you have and all your emotions of fear, anxiety and panic are about trying to rush from here, rush from the place you are.

3) Allow yourself to be ready for the next step – the next step is to breathe!

4) Breathe – deep and reconnect. To those of you who are new to my show this is the technique I suggest: place your first finger on your belly button and breathe into where your little finger rests do this until you breathe slows down and then imagine breathing at your knees and feet. In this deeply connected breath we can find clarity.

5) Keep breathing until you feel the regular breaths of deep calm and then in this space and in your heart, ask your question. Make sure that the question you ask is simply this –

What do I need to do next to move forward into more peace, happiness, joyousness and love?

Now in case you are wondering how is this relevant to my issues about my health, my job, my home , my relationship I need to remind you that the power of this question is simply profound because all of the other things I mentioned like job, relationship etc are the outward catalysts for the thing you are really after – and that is the feeling of peace, happiness, joyful-ness or love that you think these things will give to you. For eg – when I have the best relationship I will have love, the best job then I will feel joyful etc

But this is a fallacy. These things do not give you what you want – the feelings you want are states of being – they are present within you regardless of what you have, you own or how you see yourself in terms of accolades and success measures.

This is the biggest change we have to remember about ourselves and the more we fight it, the more difficult our outward situation becomes.

We are not our creations…we are above and beyond that. This is the old paradigm.

The real paradigm (not the new one but the one we must return to) is that firstly before all things we are: LOVE and when we allow love to be the truth of our being and we consciously engage with that truth we can feel safe, secure and loved because we are not alone, nor rejected nor judged. We are in fact surrounded totally by the spiritual energies of unconditional love and companionship.

Our first judgement is an illusion, we have never been judged or rejected by the Source, the Cosmic Consciousness or God – we have done that to ourselves because we could not believe we were love and yet that is what we are. We are always in love, we are always in the vortex – it is our own blinkers of self judgement and self rejection that stop us from believing what is true.

Melody speaks: I use this First Aid Course every day to maintain balance during stressful times – I recommend this unreservedly.

Bless-sings from the Angels

Melody

Winner # 36 – Angels’ Guidance

Hello Earth Angels

Here is the 36th question the Angels have answered as part of our promotion in July (and yes we do realise it is August – just clearing the last of the questions for that month!)

Shalin asks:

First THANK YOU and Angels for this opportunity.   I have two desires…the deepest burning desire is Baptism in Holy Spirit, Remembrance, Connection at this level I am at.  I have been studying, trying,  praying , searching, begging for this   20  plus years  after miracle experience introduced me to A Course In Miracles.   Melody please ask Angels to tell me what am I doing incorrectly that I do not experience connection,  peace , joy, more than everything as promised in ACIM , Bible and many other revelations I’ve searched through. 
I am OVER 75 years old  and want this connection so deeply makes me cry writing this.  My Heart/MIND  aches for completion.  I want  to live it, radiate it to all not just talk it. Thank you again…. I am very grateful. Most especially Love , Shalin

The Angels reply:

Beloved one, we know your desire is the truth of your being. It has taken you many years to live and try all things to bring you to this point and we wish to say this.

If there is anything that is keeping you from this connection it is the desire for it and the belief that you must do something to attain it.

Hear these words in the depth of your being:

You are always and forever connected to Source, to God and

in the presence of the Holy Spirit.

You are regardless of what you believe or how you have judged yourself – LOVE.

You are never separate, you already are all that you desire and more.

When you accept – this is actually who you are – your experience of this revelation will be profound – but it may not be as you expect. Let go of all your expectations as to how this will feel and be in your life. Often enlightenment comes not with the big bang but the sly and gentle whisper that will not let your being go! Always with our blessings beloved.

Bless-sings from the Angels

Melody

Winner # 32 – Angels Guidance

Hello Earth Angels

Here is the 32nd question the Angels have answered in our promotion for July.

Bambi asks:

35 years ago I met the man who makes my soul sing and we wanted to marry. Because he is black and I am white, the society around us made it impossible for us to be together. He left and married a brown girl, making it easier for him in society, but miserable for him at home as it was a poor match.  But he is a loyal and dedicated man who honors his promises, so he has stayed with her all this time, dedicating himself to his home and kids.I never married, but had a child on my own and devoted my life to raising her and getting my u. She is now on her own and successfully making her own life, and I have my PhD and a job I love. Next month, his youngest is leaving the nest for college and he has realized how short life is – too short to willingly live in a miserable relationship. He has let me know he would like to be with me, but he has a process to go through to sever from his past. We are not in communication right now as that would only complicate things at his end. After all these years, he still makes my heart sing. I feel I have waited my whole life just to share it with him. But I have fears and doubts because I have no idea what is going on in his life at the moment, and I wonder if he is strong enough to basically lose everything (property, savings, respect from his children and community – these are the things he feels he will have to deal with.) and move on. This is his journey now, but I feel like I am holding my breath, which makes MY life very uncomfortable. Will he make his way to me?
Thank you for any insight you can give me about this situation.

The Angels reply:

Love endures and can withstand much. This is one of the most valuable lessons love can teach Earth Angels.

You have held true to your love. Your fears are because you have been given hope that you life of unrequited love  (in the everyday sense) is soon to be over. In the past you thought that this would never be possible.

Love always finds its own level – and clearly the love you share is still present.

You are right to leave time and space for him to decide and act and go through the consequences of his action. On the surface he appears to have much to let go of – but in his heart he knows the truth. He has learned that love comes in many guises, one type of love is not better than another it is just different. He will need time.

You need to focus on what is in front of you now – and for the present he is not part of your life, so you need to focus on what is happening for you, your current life, your career, your friends. Keep this part of your life going – do not live in a vacuum of waiting.

Your time together will come. Bless-sings beloved.

Bless-sings from the Angels

Melody

Angels and I are interviewed by Law of Attraction Talk Radio with Jewels!

Hello Everyone

Well I was not expecting to be a guest on Jewels’ – Law of Attraction Talk Radio Show this week – but when she asked me to ask the angels to shed some light on what we need to do right now to get ‘unstuck from fear’ I knew I was meant to be doing just that!

You can see my interview here at this link on You Tube

 http://youtu.be/MnNujI4b2oA

or directly at Jewels’ host page:-

http://loaradionetwork.com/jewels.html

Jewels does a wonderful meditation for you as well – so stay to end and use her meditation often!

Bless-sings to all from the Angels and me!

Melody

Winner # 29 – Angels Guidance

Hello Earth Angels

Here is  the 29th question the Angels have answered in our promotion for July.

Shelley asks:

I am e-mailing because I have a question about what my purpose in life is.  At 50 years old, and not by my own choice initially, I am starting a new life.  Right now I feel like I am wandering aimlessly with no real direction.  I do have faith in my abilities however I’m just not sure how to apply them. I have also wondered if I will ever be able to trust someone enough to open my heart to them. Thank you.

Angels Reply:

Dear one – thank you for this question.

We feel your pain at the changes in your life – and we wish to begin there first if we may. You have come through a big wrench in your life where you have found yourself on a completely different path to what you had expected for you. You are still dealing with a lot of the emotions of that time. You have put in place a coping mechanism that enables you to function day-to-day but is like a fog around you that stops you from getting in touch with your passion. You feel that following your passion gets you into trouble and results in catastrophes. Please get some help with these emotions buried deep within you before you make choices to move forward. (Melody will suggest some ways that may help.)

Your deep desires and passions are so necessary to move you forward, without them you do not have the energy to go through all the highs and lows of an adventure. The biggest adventure Earth Angels take part in is their life – and it is the one they most often disconnect from the most. We think this is a  great sadness. It happens because Earth Angels do not understand why they came to Earth and so when something happens that pulls them from their ideal of what life is like – they begin to disconnect from life. This is what has happened to you. So the first step is to heal the emotions so you can reconnect to life. When you are fully centred in the flow you will start to feel the pull to explore different directions from now and life will be sweeter for you. Take this time to heal. Please remember your life purpose is to experience LIFE and love. The better question to ask is: Am I living my life on purpose? Am I living my life to the fullest? Or am I withholding from life and love? We think you know what you are doing and what needs to change. Your guardian angels can assist you to find the right steps. Blessings Beloved.

Bless-sings from the Angels

Melody

Melody speaks:

Hello Shelley – I would suggest the following might be useful to you:-

  • a session with a kineisiologist
  • some work with flower essences (I particularly like working with Spirit of Woman Essences that are developed with women in mind and for the emergence of the Feminine at this time
  • EFT practices
  • journal writing

Bless-sings

Melody